Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Character Sketch Assignment

Theo felt old wobbling around with a walking frame. He preferred his old walking 
stick. His son, Dennis, had taken away his walking stick after Theo’s last fall. Dennis 
refused to understand that Theo fell because the ground was slippery - not because 
his legs were shakier. Harrumph! Young people think they know everything. Wait till 
they get old.

A car whizzed past from behind him just then, causing him to lose balance. Gripping 
the frame tighter, and planting his feet firmer in the ground, he realised that hadn’t 
heard the car approach, and he had somehow steered away from the pavement. His 
heartbeat was quick from the shock of the car’s proximity. 

He wobbled slowly to a nearby bench facing the park, and sat down. The fact was, he 
couldn’t hear much. That was why he hadn’t heard the car. He contemplated his life. 
His wife, Dorothy, had passed on two years earlier. None of his 5 children seemed to 
care about him. Only Dennis visited him once a week. Dennis was a good boy. He 
offered to send Theo to a retirement home. But Theo wouldn’t have that. He wanted 
to live the rest of his life in his own house - the home where he and Dorothy made a 
life for themselves, where they raised their children. 

Theo thought of the good old days. Dorothy looked after the family so well. He 
would come home after a long day at the factory, and be greeted by delicious smells
wafting from the kitchen. When they were younger, Teresa, Donnie and Dennis
would race to hug him as soon as he walked through the door. They played together
in the garden until dinner time, and he would tuck them in bed after a bath. Theo
still remembered their laughter. Tanya and Tricia came along when the other three
were well into their teens. They loved him when they were younger too. 
When did my children stop loving me?

A tear trickled down his cheek. Embarrassed, he roughly removed his glasses on 
the pretext cleaning them, and grumbled out loud that the sun was too bright, the
children in the park were too noisy, the traffic was too close to the park, and the
birds were treating the whole world as their toilet. Nobody was close enough to
hear him, but everyone knew to stay away from grumpy old Mr Walters.

Was I heading to the grocery store or the newsagent? His memory wasn’t what it 
used to be. When Theo was younger, he was nicknamed ‘The Walking Encyclopedia’.
Now, on bad days, he couldn’t even remember where his house was. 
Growing old alone is no fun. I miss Dorothy. I miss my children.

Challenging Expectations Assignment

Jack watched as Martha worked quietly, loading the wheelbarrow with bricks, 
and pushing the load across the planks towards the workers building the wall. 
Her small build was a concern to the site supervisor, because she looked like a 
13 year old. Only after checking her ID, and getting her to prove that she could 
indeed carry a 10kg bag of cement, did he give her the job. She couldn’t read, 
or write. Her employment documents were stamped with her thumb print 
instead of a signature. Jack was convinced she was homeless. As long as she 
worked well, and didn’t cause trouble, Jack wasn’t about to question why she 
had provided a fake home address.

Martha’s only regret was that she had refused to go to school - and that her 
parents had let her get away with it. She had squandered her youth by 
travelling the world with her mother - perpetually on holiday; shopping, 
dining in exquisite places, visiting museums and art galleries. Sometimes her 
father would join them in Rome, or London or New York. They always had the 
most wonderful time together. She had taken it for granted that her family 
would provide for her. To be fair, they would happily give her money right now 
if she asked. It was she who didn’t want their money. She didn’t want to have 
anything to do with any of them. How could she, now that she knew what they 
were doing? How could her father be involved in such activity? How could her 
gentle, loving mother tolerate it? How could she live off that money? 
‘Dirty money’ she called it. Money earned from human trafficking. 

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

A Reflection

I'm in the midst of getting my affairs in order, and now realize that I may have taken on too many tasks:


  • I've started 3 online courses simultaneously (yes, THREE!), and though they are very interesting, I find myself struggling to make time to do my coursework.
  • I manage a language learning centre, and apart from being committed there for a number of hours every week, I've also offered to help my teachers out by sourcing suitable material for some of their students with specific needs.
  • My children are homeschooled. They have been for the past 10 years. They're very independent learners and have done exceptionally well until earlier this year. As they're preparing for major exams at the end of this year, they're finding some of the study material very challenging. So, as their mommy (and teacher), I've stepped in and now conduct a class for them - a couple of hours every day.
  • I'm struggling to think of topics to write about in my weekly article in wedding.com.my. In the past few weeks, I've caught myself starting at the computer screen for hours, not knowing what to write.
  • I start English classes at a new tuition centre soon. This means load of preparations before classes commence.
  • I'm responsible for my company's blog (and my own, of course!). I have to search for suitable content to post on the blog and find a way to drive traffic to it.
  • I'm developing a phonics programme. Book 1 is ready for print, and Book 2 is a WIP. After this I have Book 3 to do, and a host of readers to write...
Naturally, this is not an exhaustive list. There are 1001 other things that I, as a mother, daughter, friend, business partner, writer, niece and granddaughter, need to do.
It may seem overwhelming at times, but the end result is satisfaction. Nothing can beat that!

That said, here are my recent articles on www.wedding.com.my: